#39 "From People-Pleaser to Unapologetically You" with Dr Robert Glover

Are you meeting everyone else’s needs in the secret hope that they’ll meet yours? If you want to stop being that guy and start getting what you want, then listen to today’s episode with Dr. Robert Glover. He reveals the hidden strategies of the “Nice Guy” & what changes you can make for a life that lets you be unapologetically you!

What you’ll learn:

  • What is a “nice guy” & how do you know if you are one.
  • Ways to start taking responsibility for your own needs.
  • Why everybody struggles with relationships & how conscious dating is the way forward.
  • Honest dating advice and how to avoid the pitfalls.
  • Finding a partner that's right for you and recognising when you're being the "rescuer”.
  • The cost of porn & social media when it comes to sex and intimacy in your relationship.
  • Why it's impossible to love somebody more than you love yourself.


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This episode is all about taking responsibility for your own needs! Please be sure to tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes in order to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at [email protected], and I will see you in the next episode.

Resource Links:

"No More Mr Nice Guy" by Dr Robert Glover

Neil Strauss

"Passionate Marriage" by Dr David Schnarch

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⭐️ A place to take off the masks and be Unapologetically You. 

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⭐️A place to practice new ways of communicating, which will improve your relationships with your friends, partners and colleagues. 

As you connect deeper with each circle, you will improve your relationship with the other men. These brothers become your friends and your allies. Your relationship with yourself improves. You feel better in your body and make better choices. Your intimate relationships ignite with clarity, fire and passion. You get reconnected to your mission.

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About our guest: 

Dr. Robert Glover is an author, a marriage & family therapist, a coach, an educator, a sought-after public speaker, and a seminal figure in men’s self-improvement.

His groundbreaking book, "No More Mr. Nice Guy", has changed the lives of countless men around the world.

His other work – including his online courses and his books Dating Essentials for Men and Dating Essentials for Men: FAQ have been just as impactful. Dr. Glover has been featured in The New York Times, The Seattle Times, The Huffington Post, The Guardian, Men’s Health, and numerous other publications. He currently lives in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico.

Connect with him on: 

Website, LinkedIn

About your host:

Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.

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