#80 Sex, Psychedelics, and Relationships as Tools for Healing with Rici Liliya
Were you told that sex was something to be avoided or feared?
Did you receive any education on how to make love?
Have you ever been shown how to create a vision for your relationship or how to have difficult conversations with your partners?
Did your parents warn you that all drugs are bad and should be avoided at all costs?
What if healing and liberation lived in some of the outdated beliefs you have about sex, relationships and "drugs".
In this episode of the podcast, Gareth sits down with his partner, Rici Liliya, and talk about how they are using sex, their relationship and psychedelics to support their own healing journey.
In this episode you'll learn:
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How creating a conscious relationship can support your and your partner's healing
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How sex can be used for pleasure, healing, manifestation, prayer and transformation
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The importance of intention setting in your life, lovemaking and before a peak experience
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Why integration is essential to create lasting change after a healing experience
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How Gareth and Rici consciously use psychedelics to support their relationship and personal growth
Resources discussed in the show:
Built To Last - Create Your Relationship Blueprint
You can love someone deeply and still not know how to build with them.
Most couples never sit down and ask: What happens when intimacy fades? How do we balance busy lives and a healthy relationship? What are we actually building?
Without structure, relationships struggle and eventually fail. By establishing structure, you create a strong foundation for a new connection or an existing relationship. With this structure, combined with the tools you learn this weekend, you create a more harmonious container that supports honest communication and deeper intimacy.
Join Built To Last Live: 14-15th November: https://fatherssonsbrothers.com/built-to-last
Do Built To Last Self-Study: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/built-to-last-ss
Deepen Couple Retreat 4-6 December Cape Town South Africa
Disconnect To Reconnect
Some relationships don't need a crisis to need a reset.
Sometimes it’s the quiet moments and the things not said.
Getting into bed wondering:
“Where did the intimacy go?”
“Is it even possible to relight the fire?”
“How is it that we're living past each other?”
Co-parenting, managing a household, and daily routines can leave you feeling more like roommates than lovers.
Somewhere in the busyness of daily life, your connection faded.
Reconnection isn't a mood you wait for. It's a space you intentionally create.
Two days. No buzzing phones. No to-do list. No one who depends on you.
DEEPEN is a return to yourself and each other.
Details: https://fatherssonsbrothers.com/deepen
ABOUT OUR GUEST
Rici Liliya is a women’s embodiment and intimacy practitioner. She supports women and couples in rediscovering the sensual connections with themselves and others through an integrative approach that includes coaching, energy work, tantra-informed practices, somatic awareness, personal growth and conscious relating.
Her personal path includes complex relationship dynamics, significant loss and life-changing internal transformations before finding her way back to herself and the work she now defines as her soul’s calling. Through her own profound healing journey, she rebuilt her capacity for trust, presence and embodied intimacy.
Through embodied experience, she brings this lived wisdom into her work across emotional, relational, energetic and personal transformation.
Contact her at rici@ricililiya.com
ABOUT YOUR HOST
Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open, honest conversations that shift their mindsets and help them live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.
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