#13 Who do we become? With John Sanei

The key to upgrading your software

There are many ways you can upgrade our software.  Some focus on meditation and neuroplasticity for building new thinking.  Today’s guest, however, took a wider approach and chose healing as his entry point to change.  Join this vulnerable conversation with futurist, John Sanei for a discussion on his healing and how you transform your life.


In this episode you’ll learn:

  • How John healed family relationships, through “family constellations” and plant ceremonies.
  • The power of role-play: to heal & self-sabotage
  • The 3 phases of transformation to align yourself with an evolving world
  • Exchanging toxic masculinity for healthy, male relationships
  • Veganism and the energy we lose to sugar


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About our guest

John Sanei is a world-renowned keynote speaker, futures strategist, lecturer, best-selling author, and your guide to future trends and visionary leadership. With a knack for sharing knowledge and creating connections, John’s path lies at the intersection of human science, neuroscience, quantum technology, futurism, and business strategy. He decodes future trends, ignites ideas, connects with crowds, and leaves an empowering perspective that lasts long after he’s left the stage.

John’s keynote talks and masterclasses have taken him around the world and earned global recognition. He is Africa’s first Singularity University Faculty Member, a lecturer at Duke Corporate Education, and an Associate Partner at the Copenhagen Institute for Futures Studies. John stays on top of future trends by publishing a new book every year and recently launched his fifth bestseller, Who Do We Become?

When he’s not inspiring audiences, John’s convincing his friends, family, and fans to adopt abandoned dogs.

 You can find John on LinkedIn, Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram, or tune in to his critically acclaimed

business strategy podcast - The Expansive Podcast.



 About your hosts

Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations, that shift their mindset and lives their lives to the fullest.

Reach him on:

Website, Instagram, Linkedin, Twitter, Facebook


Matt Dahse is a father and conscious creator, designing pathways for men to follow, to unlock their potential and step into their power.


This audio experience is a Fathers Sons Brothers production.