ATTRACTING AND
MAINTAINING A SECURE
AND LOVING RELATIONSHIP
JUST GOT EASIER!
You're just seconds away from the essential tools, training and support you need to move from messy "situationships" to a deep, powerful primary partnership.
STOP WAITING TO BE MANAGED. STEP UP AND BE THE MAN WHO EARNS RESPECT.
The Little Prince pattern taught you that admiration was owed to you. Real connection has to be earned.
YOU DON'T NEED ANYONE. THAT'S THE PROBLEM.
The Hyper-Independent pattern kept you safe once. Now it's keeping you alone in a life full of success and achievement.
YOU KNOW HOW TO BE LIKED. IT'S TIME TO BE DESIRED.
The Good Boy pattern taught you that being agreeable was safer than being honest. But real attraction cannot be built on politeness alone.
THE PATTERN THAT KEEPS ENDING THINGS RIGHT WHEN IT GETS REAL.
The Avoidant Man pattern protected you once. Now it's the thing standing between you and the relationship you really want.
YOU'VE BEEN LIKED.
IT'S TIME TO BE LOVED FOR BEING YOUR AUTHENTIC SELF.
The Approval Seeker pattern taught you that peace matters more than truth. The Academy teaches you how to hold both.
YOU'VE HELD EVERYONE ELSE TOGETHER. WHO'S HOLDING YOU?
The Emotional Caretaker pattern taught you that love means managing everyone's feelings except your own. It's time to change that.
Whether you are in a relationship that needs support, recently heartbroken, still searching for Ms Right, or you've just discovered your pattern through our assessment, this is your training ground.
30 days of full access for $9.
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You can be winning in business, body and finance and still be lost in love.
You walk into your own home and feel tension.
You can sit across from your partner, but feel miles apart.
Maybe you scroll through dating apps, feeling overwhelmed and underprepared.
You think:
"Why do I feel like I’m doing everything right, but still getting it wrong?”
You are not alone, brother.
This is not about women.
THIS IS ABOUT YOUR PATTERNS.
Maybe you already know your pattern: the Approval Seeker, the Avoidant Man, the Good Boy, or one of the others. Maybe you don't, yet.
Either way, your patterns are formed early in life, and without awareness and training, they repeat.
Different woman. Same emotional outbursts - until you change something
No one taught you how to attract and maintain healthy, conscious relationships.
You were taught how to perform.
How to achieve. How to provide.
But not how to communicate.
Not how to manage relationship blow-ups.
Not how to create attraction.
Not how to maintain long-term intimacy.
You are not broken
You are untrained
Men Join Us From
One Of Three Places
The Man in the Relationship
You love your partner, but something feels off. Arguments repeat, or the intimacy has faded. You feel like you are walking on eggshells and living with a roommate.
The Heartbroken Man
Something significant has ended, and you are questioning everything. You're trying to make sense of what went wrong and wonder if you'll ever get it right.
The Man Who Wants Love
You want a partner, but dating feels like a minefield. You are tired of starting over and over again, and want to get it right this time.
If any of this sounds like you, you know that attracting, understanding, and maintaining a relationship with a good woman can feel impossible, and, at times, make you want to pull your hair out.
Don't attempt it unprepared. You don't need to struggle alone.
Don't worry, brother, we've got you...
that's why we built The Academy.
Thankfully, all of that is behind you now...
The Fathers Sons Brothers Academy solves all of this.
It is a training ground for men who want to master themselves, their relationships, and their sex lives.
All the systems, tools and support your relationship needs.
The Academy Will Help You To:
Identify exactly why your relationship is blowing up and defuse the bombs before they explode.
Learn ancient Taoist lovemaking practises so that you become a confident, long-lasting lover in the bedroom.
Create a relationship vision so that you and your partner are on the same page about your relationship.
(You aren't trying to navigate your relationship without a map, are you?)
Learn simple tools to self-regulate when you get triggered, so that you can easily bring your partner to a place of calm and safety.
Heal unhealthy patterns from past relationships so you don't recreate them in your current or future connections.
Identify and heal the root cause of porn addiction, hyper sexuality and impulsive desires, so that your relationship is based on meaning and deep connection.
When You Register For the Academy, you get:
Training
Frameworks and tools to understand and lead relationships.
Over 90 video training lessons, broken down so that you can easily find the right solution to solve your dating, relating or intimacy challenge.
Self-assessment frameworks including the Mother Wound Pattern Assessment, which reveals your relationship shadows, attachment style and unique life path
Value: $997 / YEAR
Brotherhood
Men who challenge you, support you and hold you accountable.
A vibrant and active private community for questions, reflections and connection.
A monthly mandate: an online coffee catch-up with another growth-minded man also committed to becoming a self-led man.
Value: $1,997 / YEAR
Structure
Clear practices that create real change in your daily life.
A proven pathway. You can build your training program around your life, schedule and existing practices.
Weekly live calls for coaching, building confidence and feedback.
Plus: Free 22-minute onboarding and reflection session with Matt or Gareth. [Limited Spots Available]
Value: $1,497 / YEAR
Think about the Academy like a laboratory where you actively apply what you're learning in your relationship.
And receive immediate feedback, coaching and training that deliver results in real time.
When You Join The Academy You Move From:
Before The Academy |
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After The Academy |
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Second-guessing |
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Self-trust |
People pleasing |
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Leading |
Disconnection |
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Deep intimacy |
Confusion |
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Clarity |
You're just moments away from becoming a self-led man in all your relationships.
A man who is grounded, respected and desired.
I’M GARETH PICKERING
A men’s relationship coach, facilitator and founder of Fathers Sons Brothers.
I work with high-performing men who have built success in their careers but feel lost, disconnected or frustrated in their relationships.
I've walked my own path of messy relationships, depression and sex addiction. In 2014, I had a spiritual awakening and realised I was the one responsible for all the chaos and disappointment in my connections. I've spent the last decade completely focused on studying and understanding human behaviour and how to create meaningful human relationships.
How we will work together
The Academy gives you the tools, structure, and brotherhood to level up your life and relationships.
The Men Inside The Academy Are Already Awake.
Like you, they know their power, abundance, and truth already live inside them. They join The Academy because they're self-aware enough to know that even awake men forget sometimes.
So they surround themselves with other conscious men who remind them.
If nothing changes, your pattern continues.
The same fights. The same distance. The same loneliness.
Or a life of short-term connections that never go deep.
This does not fix itself.
THE ACADEMY IS
NOT FOR EVERY MAN.
We want you to be sure this is right for you so that you don't waste
any time on solutions that are not going to work for you.
Who the Academy is for:
- Men who want to attract loving, heart-centred relationships.
- Honest men. Most of the problems we face on our planet stem from people's inability to be completely honest with themselves and those around them. The Academy is about truth.
- Action takers who invest in the content and community and implement and test it in their own lives and relationships. We can provide all the training and resources, but we can't do your push-ups for you.
- Growth-minded men. Some men believe that their lives and relationships are predetermined and can't be changed. Fixed mindset. We work with men who know that changing their mindset changes everything.
- Open to learn. Some of the content inside the Academy is going to shake your reality - that means you're expanding. Men who are brave enough to question their beliefs expand what they can hold in their reality.
Who the Academy is NOT for:
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Players looking to learn tactics just to attract more women and have more sex. Communities for this type of man exist online, but the FSB Academy is not one of them.
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Men looking for a quick fix or unwilling to invest time in doing inner work. Healthy relationships require time, effort and honesty.
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Someone who expects guaranteed results. We know our programs work; thousands of men have experienced incredible results. Relationships are complex, and it would be unethical for us to guarantee specific results. Be very cautious of anyone who guarantees relationship results!
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Men with a victim mentality. Challenges are part of life. But if you make them your excuse and your identity, they remain your reality. The Academy is for men ready to reclaim their power and grow from challenges.
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Complainers. Complaining is the language of the victim. See the point above. We work with leaders who take radical self-responsibility.
It may seem strange to try to talk you out of joining the Academy.
We don't want to waste your time, and if your energy doesn't align with the rest of the men in the community, neither of us benefits. We're committed to your success, provided you are too. The points above are intended to guide you in making the right decision before you join.
Join The Academy
Start with 30 days of full access for just $9.
Then choose the plan that suits you. Both plans include the full Academy.
Cancel anytime. You keep full access until the end of the period you've paid for.